Reconciliation

THE SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION

Come Home to God's Mercy.

No matter how long it has been since your last Confession, God's mercy is waiting for you. In the Sacrament of Reconciliation, Christ forgives our sins, restores us to grace, and gives us the strength to begin again.

Forgiven and Made New

Forgiven and Made New

Sin damages our relationship with God and with one another, but God's mercy is greater than our sin.

In the Sacrament of Reconciliation, also called Confession or Penance, we encounter the mercy of Jesus Christ in a personal and powerful way. We confess our sins with sincere sorrow, receive absolution through the ministry of the priest, and are reconciled with God and His Church.

We do not come to Confession because we are perfect. We come because we need God's mercy, healing, and grace.

Every Confession is an invitation to return to the Father, receive His forgiveness, and begin again.

Christ Gave the Church This Sacrament

“Whose Sins You Forgive Are Forgiven”

After His Resurrection, Jesus appeared to the Apostles, breathed the Holy Spirit upon them, and entrusted them with the ministry of forgiving sins.

Through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, this ministry continues in the Church through her priests. When the priest gives absolution, it is Christ Himself who acts through the sacrament to forgive and reconcile us.

Confession therefore isn't simply receiving advice from a priest. It is a sacramental encounter with Jesus Christ and His mercy.

“Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them.”
— John 20:22–23

THE SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION

An Encounter With God's Mercy

The Sacrament of Reconciliation restores us to friendship with God when that friendship has been wounded by sin.

Through the ministry of the priest, Christ offers us forgiveness, peace, and the grace to turn away from sin and follow Him more faithfully.

The sacrament is sometimes called Confession, because we confess our sins; Penance, because conversion includes making amends and changing our lives; and Reconciliation, because through God's mercy we are reconciled with Him and His Church.

Preparing Our Hearts for Reconciliation

Examination of Conscience

Recognizing Where We Need God's Mercy

Before celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation, we prayerfully examine our conscience in the light of God's Word and the teachings of the Church. We ask the Holy Spirit to help us recognize where we have sinned in our thoughts, words, actions, and omissions.

Contrition

Sorrow for Our Sins

Recognizing our sins leads us to contrition which is sincere sorrow for having offended God and a desire to turn away from sin. True contrition includes the intention, with God's grace, to change our lives and avoid sin in the future.

Confession

Bringing Our Sins to Christ

We honestly confess our sins to the priest, trusting not in our own goodness but in God's mercy. We do not need perfect words, only honesty, humility, and a sincere desire for forgiveness.

Absolution

Receiving God's Forgiveness

The priest speaks the words of absolution in the name of Christ and His Church. Through this sacrament, our sins are forgiven, our relationship with God is restored, and we receive grace and strength to begin again.

Penance

Responding to God's Mercy

The priest gives us a penance which is often a prayer, an act of charity, or another spiritual action. Penance does not earn God's forgiveness; rather, it is our response to the mercy we have received and helps repair the harm caused by sin.

HAVEN'T BEEN TO CONFESSION IN A WHILE?

How to Go to Confession

1 — PREPARE

Spend some quiet time in prayer and make an examination of conscience. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you recognize your sins honestly and trust in God's mercy.

4 — PRAY & RECEIVE ABSOLUTION

Express Your Sorrow and Receive God's Forgiveness

The priest will invite you to express your contrition through a Prayer of the Penitent. You may use a familiar Act of Contrition or another prayer expressing your sorrow and desire to turn away from sin.

The priest then prays the words of absolution, through which Christ forgives your sins and grants you pardon and peace.

2 — Enter and Be Welcomed

The priest will welcome you, and together you begin with the Sign of the Cross. You may tell the priest how long it has been since your last Confession.

Don't remember what to do? Simply tell the priest. He will guide you.

5 — GO IN PEACE

Give Thanks and Complete Your Penance

After absolution, the priest concludes the sacrament by praising God's mercy and sending you forth in peace.

Complete your penance as soon as reasonably possible, thank God for His forgiveness, and ask for the grace to continue growing in holiness.

3 — Confess Your Sins

Confess your sins honestly and simply. The priest may offer counsel to help you grow in your relationship with God and will give you a penance to complete.

You don't need perfect words. Come with honesty, sorrow for your sins, and trust in God's mercy.

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QUESTIONS ABOUT CONFESSION

Frequently Asked Questions

Have questions or feel nervous about going to Confession? You're not alone. Here are answers to some common questions about celebrating the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

RECONCILIATION AT ST. ROSE

Come and Experience God's Mercy

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is available each week at St. Rose of Lima. No matter how long it has been since your last Confession, you are always welcome.

Tuesday & Thursday
After the morning Mass

Saturday
3:00 PM – 3:50 PM